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Sent: Sunday, March 15, 2009 3:55 AM
Subject: Bus seat
I make a conscious effort to sit and stand next to the “creepiest” people in hopes that they will not feel like they are avoided. I hope acknowledging them as people with no differences brings a little dignity.
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Sent: Sunday, March 15, 2009 7:42 PM
Subject: Re: Bus Seat
I’ve noticed for months now that people hardly sit next to me and when the bus fills up, I’m often the last person anyone will sit next to. Even though I don’t understand why, it has had a significant effect on my self-esteem (to the point where I’ve brought it up in therapy).
Sitting next to me is probably one of the kindest things a stranger could do.
The next time I take a bus I’ll sit next to you. It breaks my heart that some people alienate others like this and so many other ways…. even though I do it sometimes too.